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Never assume.It makes an 'ass' out of 'u' and 'me'

Journal Entry: Mon Oct 3, 2011, 4:13 AM



Ramblings...



-------Why do people assume...-------

That because I'm quitting cosplaying Axel, that now means I hate Kingdom Hearts?

Come on. Get a grip. You aren't psychic, so don't assume you know what I love and what I hate, unless I explicitly say it.

I'm out of the fandom, yes. Guess what? I'm also not a fan of Fireman Sam anymore, but that doesn't mean I hate it. Why, if I'm not taking active interest in a series, does that suddenly mean people are jumping to the conclusion that I want the series and all that which is affiliated with it to burn?



Think about it .... It'd be illogical for me to hate a fandom that:

- Made me so well-known
- Bought together me and my closest friends
- Helped me meet the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with, and am now going to move in with.
- Is the reason I have got to travel to the States and Canada
- Has bought me so much fun and joy
- Inducted me into cosplay, a hobby which I now love.

I'm leaving KH behind, yes... but all these things are coming forward with me, because of it.


I'm selling all my KH cosplay stuff, yes. Why? Because I'm never going to wear it again, and it is all going towards something much, much more important to me: My new home with Jenn.


I personally think that the Kingdom Hearts franchise has run it's course. After KH2, none of the games really captured my interest in the same way. But hey, that's how the world works. You like some stuff, you don't like others. Whether I still love KH or not has no bearing on whether or not people will continue to love the fandom in all their past, present and future ventures.

It's just not for me.



That is all. But thank you, once again, to the huge number of you who have supported and understood where myself and the others are coming from when we said we were quitting KH cosplay. You guys are yet another of the great things this fandom has introduced us to, and just because we're leaving KH behind, it's a pleasure to know that we won't be leaving you guys behind with it, or vice versa :)

DFTBA.

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:icongir2898:
i bet ya hate the idiots who say that kingdom hearts is dead to you and that you hate it? if i am right reply, mainly because i need a life and a conversation i am still pretty pissed off about this year so far...i hate my life and stupidity...imma jus' gunna shut up
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:iconenbalover:
Kelly,
i have fallowed you and jenn for a long time. and moving on isnt so bad. new things can happen. and i will say ill miss dt and all the cosplay that has went into that. it was actually your dt axel that helped me start on my axelia(alexia) oc. its based of your attitude with axel and she is the female version of him.. so all the work you put into axel will always be a sweet memory and inspiration to me. and being with the woman you love and wanting to live in a home with jenn is amazing and i love that. 2 amazing people under one roof. you 2 have helped me get through alot. even if your stopping axel and vexen(who dear lord the voice about made me die of lulz)and others. doesnt mean you hate it. your just putting the past into a box and cherishing it. and letting new things bloom. since you and jenn kinda saved my life i cant just give up on you guys. so ill forever be a fan. and ill always be looking for something new. and i am trying my hardest to get something of axels so i can be even more inspired. :3 i love you both!
~britters aka "enbalover"
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:iconrikaimojax:
And I completely understand this. As people mature, they grow out of things. I hate to compare it like this, but how many of us sit down and watch Teletubbies or Dora the Explorer because it still holds out interest? Very few, if any. That is exactly the same concept. Things, like people, run their course in our lives. They do what they were meant to, then move out to make room for the next thing intended to propel us forward. Just because something doesn't rule your life, doesn't mean you hate it. I'm temporarily moving out of the anime fandom. Not because I hate anime, not because I dislike it in the slightest, but because I need to put myself in the gruesome, Halloween mindset for my job, I HAVE to focus more on things I can use in the haunted house I work at. This does NOT mean I hate anime. Everyone does it. Everyone moves on, whether it's temporary or permanent in our lives.
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:iconsporadicthinker:
~SporadicThinker Oct 7, 2011  Student Photographer
DFTBA!!!
Congrats on moving in together. So happy for you. :)
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:iconmilkater:
I hate when people assume they know me... I've also been called a perv just for supporting gay rights ((they are completely ignoring the fact I'm bi))... People don't know another person just from a few words... Gonna miss your KH vids, but I look forward to all your other ones =)
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:iconryugexu:
I'm so happy you two are moving in together!!! :D
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:icon12ang122:
People need to learn more. xP About assuming and such. I hate when people assume, it annoys the heck out of me, because they jump to conclusions.

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Maybe that will cheer you up. xP xD
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:iconshadowdeathphotos:
!shadowdeathphotos Oct 5, 2011  Hobbyist Photographer
I love when people assume stuff. Really goes to show who your real fans are. I've had the time to restrict my KH cosplay, but, I mean, it really does go to show who your real fans are. Personally, I love the Left 4 Dead stuff more than your KH stuff. I am curious, you guys still doing some Amnesia related Cosplays, or was that just a one time idea? lol
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:icon321lemontine123:
"Assume = ass out of u and me" was what was written on the chalkboard on the first day of our sixth grade social studies class. That was a fun year!
Honestly, as long as you're still making videos with Jenn I don't care who you cosplay! I tend to love everything you do! You guys are awesome!
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:iconkh-lover15:
Cool title.

People like that are so aggravating. I hate it when people assume things about me that aren't true. Very annoying!

I'm so happy for you and Jenn!! I wish you happiness and luck!!! :heart:
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